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From the Creative Healer’s Summit

by | Jul 13, 2020 | General, Interviews

Krystal is interviewed by Alison Palmer for her Creative Healer’s Summit and shares how in the ancient times, sexuality was part of everyday life and how we can release sexual shame in order to step more deeply into our creative power.

Rising Feminine Online Temple Masterclass

by | Jul 13, 2020 | General, Interviews

Krystal is interviewed by Jonita D’Sousa about how we can integrate the wounded masculine and feminine energies within our being.

STAY OPEN DEAR HEART

by | Jun 23, 2020 | Featured (home page), General

If you are struggling with something in your life right now, this is for you:

Stay open sweet heart, stay open.

Feel all the pain
Feel all the injustice
Feel all the ways you are misunderstood.

Feel it all.
Allow it to be.
Sit with it
Accept it.

Love the pain
Love the fear
Transmute it all back to love, into wholeness.

Ride it like a surfer rides a wave.
Be present to it.
Then let it go.

The world is simply giving you a way to deepen into your heart,
Deepen into your expansion,
Deepen into love.

I have been there.
I am there.

It’s tough, it’s painful and it challenges every ounce of the conditioned self,
Every bit that has attached to this human experience of separation, fear of safety, needing to be right.

Let it go, sweet heart, let it go!
Surrender to what is, to decrease the resistance.
Remember the purpose.
Remember love.

The knowing of the purpose assists me to hold on to the vision of what is to come,
of why this is happening.

Our greatest challenges are your greatest gifts.
They teach us.

Can you be the witness when the shit that hits the fan?
Can you transmute the pain?
Can you keep your heart open, to radiate the love that you are?
Can you express gratitude for what is?

We are always on track.
We are always supported.
This is something to be grateful for.

I am carving the path
I am creating a new template.
Follow me. Walk beside me.

We’ve got this!

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With passion and purpose,

Krystal

Is your True Essence hiding?

by | Jun 23, 2020 | Featured (home page), General

Is your truest essence hiding?

Our true self can often hide behind the survival mechanisms we have put in place as children…

In a recent client session, we explored the desire to take up space and to be visible and audible. This was the true self-wanting to emerge. It was hidden behind the people-pleaser, the persona or role that had learned to compromise their truth in order to fit in and be loved.

In its highest and integrated essence, the people-pleaser becomes the diplomat, the peacemaker, the empath who knows how to create win-win solutions, because they are aware of other people’s needs. This is the divine feminine principle.

On the other hand, the people-pleaser was compensated by the driven achiever. The one who follows their dreams and desires, no matter what other people think. The one that pushes past the inner knowing to take a rest. The one that needs success and feeds off validation of their achievements.

When integrated, this part becomes the divine masculine essence within. The driven achiever becomes that part that can focus when needed, that has our back and embodies presence, strength, and focus.

All these survival mechanisms serve a higher purpose. When we make peace with them, they provide qualities and that become attributes of our true essence. They have been the training ground for our true self to emerge. All we have to do is integrate those inner rebels (those moody inner children) back into the team of our highest self.

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With love,

Krystal
Soul Leadership Coach, International Tantra Teacher & Bestselling Author

The push and pull between wounded and divine aspects within

by | Jun 22, 2020 | General

CORONA VIRUS REFLECTIONS

From the caterpillar to the chrysalis and the struggles to become a butterfly
The push and pull between the wounded and divine masculine/feminine aspects within, at this time

I often find myself moving between deep connection with myself into a loss of connection, moving through different stages far more intensely than usually, between the wounded masculine, wounded feminine, divine feminine and divine masculine.

One moment, I am feeling the collective fear and momentarily attaching to it. Not so much about the virus but around or freedom of choice being taken away, wondering if enough people doing enough to fight for it.

Then I am feeling some of the blindness towards the bigger picture of what is going on and momentarily attach to the frustration, desiring I could do more to awaken humanity…

Then I return to the knowing that everything is as it’s meant to be and that there is divine timing and a divine plan unfolding. Awakened women are connecting and collaborating for a new world. All is well.

Then there is the feeling the hope of what is going to unfold at the end of all this…
Hope to set new priorities.
Hope to deepen into love and connection.
Hope to collectively move into acceptance of all the differences and the diversity of this human life.
Hope and knowing that this is the beginning of the rebirth into unity consciousness, living from harmony, joy and true, deep and meaningful connection.

This global pause had us collectively move from the caterpillar stage into the chrysalis, the darkness, where we hibernate and transform. When it is time to come out, the rebirthing into the butterfly is always associated with struggle, getting out of the confines of the chrysalis is building the new muscles, so that we can fly. I feel this is about standing up for what is in true alignment with our soul, our value of freedom for example for sovereignty, for connection.

There is a dance between attaching to fear and old patterns (wounded masculine), burying the head in the sand because the attachments lower our vibration (wounded feminine) and between becoming the observer of it all, allowing all emotions to move through us before we return to the place of the witness.

This is not about avoiding or bypassing.

This is about experiencing the fullness of what is going on, allowing it to move through the body and then coming back to centre, stillness and self.

There is also a co-creating between the divine feminine and the divine feminine. The feminine is visualising the new world and living in the possibility of the new dream. On it’s own, this can often be seen as naive. It requires the cooperation of the divine masculine, who is acting in the present moment with non-attached, focussed attention on what needs to be done in order to make the new realities manifest.

Inviting you to look deeply into the inner shadows, connect deeply with your own bodies, your own spirit and paving a deeper connection to your sovereignty.

Love,
Krystal